A person goes away.
Creates a void. In your life. Perhaps, in many other lives. Lives that the person touched.
You learn to live on. Gather fortitude. Overcome emotions.
How?
By deriving strength from the memories. Memories of the time spent together, of the adventures, of joy and of the ups and downs of life. Memories of things that the deceased person loved to do. Memories of people and places.
Sharing some of these memories of the person you all knew.
Many of the pictures pertain to her 70th birthday (which was to be her last!) and the last road trip we did together in May 2024. There are many more pictures, videos and other memorabilia which we couldn't include lest the story should become unwieldy.
Neeta- A Family Person
Neeta The Animal Lover
She loved animals, birds and Nature at large. Sharing two of her pictures below.
Neeta loved being with her friends. Be it her school and college friends, or from the Navy (after our marriage) or Harsh's college buddies and spouses, or from the Army and Air Force (after our inter-services appointments) and lastly her 'Kitty' gang! Her face would lit up in the company of friends!
Sharing below our earlier posts about Neeta. In case you hadn't read it earlier, you may click the links.
Miss You Forever - Eulogies and tributes by family and friends on Neeta's demise in Sep-24.
Balancing Weight of Ghumakkad's Life - What all she loved including online shopping (off-line too!) and mangoes. Written on her 69th birthday.
Spouse's Birthday is Always Special - Posted on her 63rd birthday. What happens after 40 years of married life and more.
Finally, here is a special video created by Ashi, our daughter. It captures the happy times that Neeta spent with everyone. Thank you Ashi.
We end with a quote about the power of memories which says, "Time moves in one direction, memory in another."
Thanks for being a part of our life. Friends and memories keep us going. Am sure Neeta is watching from wherever she is and giving us a broad smile!
Stay connetced and say a few words before closing the page. It will add to our pleasant memories.
- Harsh-the-Ghumakkad with inputs from Ashi/ Secunderabad/ 27th May 2025
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A. Beautiful tribute to a beautiful person!!! ❤️
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DeleteShe was a great at lady we all miss her. Wish her a happy birthday wherever she is We can feel her smiles
ReplyDeleteThanks much. Appreciate.
DeleteVery nostalgic and emotional, brought tears to my eyes, specially the video by dear Ashi. With your resolve, be strong as the quoted saying about the Time & Memories in opposite directions come so true. (With moist eyes can’t even see the alphabets). Eternal peace to the departed Soul. We all remember her and miss her.
ReplyDeleteThanks Raman for your warm sentiments.
DeleteRespect and hugs.
ReplyDeleteThank you for both.
DeleteWhat could be a better way to remember her in her birthday Harsh! Memories are like shadows. They stick to you for ever.
ReplyDeleteWell said Dilip. Thanks much.
DeleteShe was so full of life and was the first Naval wife to welcome Vandana to Naval fertility in 1980. Well compiled Sir. Warm Regards
ReplyDeleteThanks much Rakesh and Vandana. Appreciate
DeleteShe used to do Yoga with us in RSI and we also crossed path playing Tambola. A sharp observer who was very careful with what she spoke. Awarm and pleasant individual.
ReplyDeleteThanks fellow Tambola player. Appreciate your sentiments.
DeleteRespect and admiration sir
ReplyDeleteThanks Admiral. Appreciate.
DeleteCherished memories live on
ReplyDeleteThanks Commodore Champion.
Deletecherished ,e,ories live on
ReplyDeleteLovely picture story Harsh. It has brought a beautiful person back to life. I met her in Bangalore a few months ago and cannot believe she is gone. We were truly shocked. God bless.
ReplyDeleteYes, Bangalore was her last outing. Thanks for writing.
Deletea lovely compilation of pictures of family and friends in whose hearts she always resided. A beautiful tribute to a lady with Golden Heart.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your warm sentiments.
DeleteFamily person with full empathy and humility....Fond memories.....stays....
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Thanks Gopu and Parvathi. Appreciate.
DeleteLovely picture story of Mrs Bhargava. The pictures capture her ever smiling face. That is the only face we know of her. Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteThanks Ajay. Appreciate your sentiments.
DeleteSo nostalgic . So well expressed bhaiya . This is such a beautiful way to remember our bhabhi who will be forever in our hearts. Happy Birthday dear bhabhi wherever you are. We all miss you.
ReplyDeleteThanks Geeta for your warm message. Appreciate.
DeleteGreat tribute to a great lady. We will always remember the great times we had together.
ReplyDeleteThanks much Asokan and Rani. Appreciate.
DeleteThey may be gone, but their essence lives on—in the stories we tell, the laughter we remember, the photos and videos that capture fleeting moments, and the quiet spaces they once made whole.
ReplyDeleteWell said Prof. Thanks much.
DeleteOn the anniversary of Berta's passing, sending you strength and love. I am thinking of you and your family, and I hope you can find some comfort in the memories you shared with Neeta. Her spirit lives on in our hearts.
ReplyDeleteThanks much Vicky for your warm sentiments. Appreciate.
DeleteShe was indeed a beautiful person inside outside. Your tribute is so touching. May everyone lead the life both of you did together. Rare to find such a complete couple. Have no words to describe my feelings
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your warm words. Appeciate.
DeleteWhat a tribute to your better half!
ReplyDeleteCan imagine how much you must be missing her especially in your travels.
God will ensure that her adventurous spirit is with you all the time.
Thanks much for your blessings. Appreciate.
DeleteShows your respect, love , care and bond, Sir. Remarkable gathering.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for writing. Appreciate.
DeleteOne of the most beautiful person in our lives....
ReplyDeleteThanks Balue. Appreciate.
DeleteFond memories of a beautiful person to cherish forever ❤️
ReplyDeleteThanks Sangeeta. Appreciate.
DeleteExtremely Cheerful Lady , who cared for her mother & who was wonderful companion for Harsh. Our FOND memories
ReplyDeleteThanks Sir for your kind words. Appreciate.
DeleteMany thanks for sharing with us these precious memories.
ReplyDeleteWe all miss such a wonderful person.
Veena and Anand Khandekar
Appreciate your warm sentiments Commodore and Mrs Khandkar.
DeleteLovely pictures woven wonderfully as a beautiful memorabilia. With fond rememberances
ReplyDeleteThanks much Lalit. Appreciate.
DeleteWhat a beautiful tribute to dear Neeta ….And what a beautiful way to remember her on her birthday. Got me so emotional and teary eyed.
ReplyDeleteThinking of dear Neeta and hoping & praying you will have a peaceful day.
‘Happy Birthday in heaven Dear Neeta.’
Thank you so mcu for your warm sentiments. Appreciate.
DeleteRemembering Aunty with lots of love on her Birthday! Such a moving and emotional tribute to the Vibrant person she was! All the pictures exude love and happiness....a life lived fully! Ashi's video moved me to tears....No one can replace a Mom!
ReplyDeleteWe all miss you, Neeta Aunty! 💕
Thanks so much Rohini. You were like the family.
DeleteA Best Friend Gone but not Lost.Memories,sweet memories will remain for ever.
ReplyDeleteThanks Bhaisahab. Appreciate.
DeleteVery emotional memories.
ReplyDeleteThanks Jijaji.
DeleteI miss you Nani ❤️
ReplyDeleteThanks Niku. Take care buddy.
DeleteLoss of a spouse is intangible, you will know only when you experience it. Preserve your memories and let the adoration blossom.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your warm message. Appreciate.
DeleteSuch a touching tribute to reminisce and celebrate her... Her beauty, love and radiance still shines. Sending you hugs, Uncle.
ReplyDeleteThanks Anchita She loved you guys so dearly. God bless.
DeleteSuch beautiful memories 💖 happy birthday to Neeta!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much.
DeleteBeautifully captured sweet memories, Brings tears to eyes -with nostalgia.
ReplyDeleteThanks much Captain Jindal. Appreciate.
DeleteHarsh, what a touching tribute to your soul mate! It's only these cherished memories with stay with one. Kudos to you and the family for remembering her with vigor and love, sure to make her proud.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much Anoop for your comforting words. Appreciate buddy.
DeleteThank you for sharing her rich life which enriched so many lives!
ReplyDeleteThanks for your kind sentiments.
DeleteThanks Harsh for reviving pleasant memories through the album.A remarkable person whom I found always joyous and positive.Our shared memories in the Colony will forever be cherished.
ReplyDeleteYes Sir, she had that Lucknow and Nawabi connection with you. Thanks for writing.
DeleteYour love for your spouse was known to all of us. It has been captured and reinforced beautifully in words as well as through pictures in this blog.
ReplyDeleteThe last I remember about the affection and bond you two shared was when we went for shopping in Bhopal and you were showing her thru video call the variety of material available and taking her choice..
God bless her and always keep her under his care where ever she is. R.Bhatia.
Thanks much Ranjana for your sweet memories. Appreciate your warm sentiments.
DeleteSuch a touching tribute to your soulmate! Loved Ashi’s video tribute to Mom…so emotional.
ReplyDeleteYaadein are all that remain. Wherever she is now, she must be beaming on her such a loving and accomplished family.
Praying for her eternal peace.
Thanks for such warm and affectionate message Dinesh. Appreciate.
DeleteSo many beautiful memories, but way too few. Missing aunty and her gorgeous hearty laughter. 💙
ReplyDeleteThanks much Himani. God bless.
DeleteLove you dadi! Miss you so much. I know you're watching over and blessing us from above! :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Ansh for your loving comment. God bless
DeleteMost appropriate and touching tribute to Neeta, who always had an infectious smile which brought cheers around. We miss her as she has been an inseparable part of BITS community. May Ishwar grant her soul eternal peace.
ReplyDeleteThanks Ashok for your warm sentiments. Appreciate.
DeleteMiss her pleasant hello of LDMC lot in RSI and many more happy times when we met. Nice collection to recap .
ReplyDeleteThanks much fellow LDMC Course mate.
DeleteSuch an amazing tribute by remembering her through beautiful, joyous memories. Full of life indeed!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much.
DeleteFor Neeta, On Her First Anniversary
ReplyDeleteIn every circle, laughter rings—
From schoolyard days to navy springs,
In college halls, at Kitty’s call,
Her warmth and joy would touch us all.
Her eyes would shine when friends drew near,
A gentle heart, so bright and clear.
She gathered souls from far and wide,
With kindness flowing deep inside.
She loved the earth, each leaf and paw,
In every creature, wonder saw.
Her spirit danced in sunlit glades,
Where friendship bloomed and sorrow fades.
Though time moves on, her light remains,
In every memory love sustains.
We gather now, her friends, her kin,
To keep her laughter deep within.
Neeta, your compassion stays—
A gentle guide for all our days.
Forever missed, forever dear,
In every friend, you’re always near.
Thanks Nagesh. So beautifully composed and summarised.
DeleteDeeply appreciate.
...I still have her Kheer ki recipe...no one got it as perfect as she did ...such a warm gracious person...left an indelible mark on anyone who met her.....take care Harsh...love Granny...
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DeleteYes, that terrace dinner at your house! And much more.
Let's catch up sooner..
Dear Sir, having known Ma'am from just after your marriage, till the last time we met, one can't even imagine how much you would be missing her.. a void that perhaps only time and the family, may help partially fill. This is when we bow to destiny & find solace in the memories left behind..
ReplyDeleteThanks for your warm sentiments. Friends like you keep us going.
DeleteGod bless.
What lovely memories, thanks for sharing. Happy Birthday Neeta up in Heaven, sure you are smiling as usual and Blessing all your loved ones.
ReplyDeleteHarsh cherish these beautiful memories, these are precious.❤️
Thank you so much.
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SO ALIVE, gbs
ReplyDeleteThanks Dr Sethi
DeleteWhat an incredibly touching writeup Harsh! Felt your deep love for Neeta in every word. These pictures are priceless.
ReplyDeleteThanks Renu, appreciate your sentiments.
DeleteHarsh, a befitting way to remember Neeta.
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