Wednesday, 17 December 2025

There is Magic in the Air... When They Meet

There is a special kind of magic that unfolds when naval veterans meet at their annual get-togethers—a blend of laughter, nostalgia, pride, a lot of leg pulling, yet also the quiet comfort that comes from being among people who understand you without needing many words. These reunions are far more than social events; they are a return to a shared past.  A recent annual get together at Goa was all that and more. It was an absolute blast, brimming with laughter, nostalgia, and camaraderie.

As a first-time attendee spouse, when I walked into the gathering with more nerves than confidence—awkward, a bit apprehensive, and admittedly a little lost. Everyone seemed to slip so naturally into conversations, laughter, and tight hugs that I wondered whether I would find my place at all. But that uncertainty didn’t last long. This warm, lively group had a way of drawing people in effortlessly. The banter flowed easily, with each story and anecdote growing funnier and wilder depending on who was telling it!!

Thanks to the ladies’ group, games and light-hearted teasing kept everyone in high spirits-- (literally & metaphorically !)

Evenings were the real highlight. Whether it was the gala night, a river cruise, or a casual get-together, the rhythm of old camaraderie takes over easily. The gentlemen veterans danced with an enthusiasm and verve that defies age, medical advice, and occasionally gravity! Spouses matched them move for move — because naval wives have their own unspoken sisterhood, complete with competitive enthusiasm. As the evening unfolded, small islands of conversation form—some debating old escapades, some catching up on family news, others sharing life’s latest triumphs and trials.



It was so heartwarming to see old bonds rekindled and new friendships forming effortlessly. The mix of familiar faces and new ones added a fresh spark to the celebrations.

What makes these reunions so cherished is the simplicity of it all—no pretence, no hierarchy, no need for explanation. Just people who shared a life of purpose, challenge, and adventure, coming together to celebrate the stories that shaped them. By the time the evening winds down, hearts are full, cheeks hurt from smiling, and promises are made to meet again, same time next year.

As we parted on the last day, it felt as though we were leaving behind not just friends, but family.

However, now Kochi beckons next year!

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The above post is a guest story from Padma Ramesh an accomplished journalist and a naval spouse. Thanks Padma for sharing the story and pictures of your late husband's Course Reunion. It will resonate with all Fauzis and their spouses. Looking forward to more guest stories from you.

Also, calling other readers-cum-writers: It would be our pleasure to carry your guest story. We have published more than a dozen guest stories so far. Our guest writers have ranged in the age group of eight to eighty!

Sharing below few of our previous stories of other Course Reunions.

Anjadip War Memorial - When 75-year-old Navy Veterans visited a War Memorial


Veterans Bash in a Train - When the course mates had a bash in a train! 




Magical Sunrise at Puri  -  And the veterans go shooting at a sea beach! Never too old to splash your feet!

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    - Harsh-the-Ghumakkad/ Secunderabad/ 17th Dec 2025

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5 comments:

  1. I also went for a reunion of BHEL at Bhopal. Exactly same feelings

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  2. Col Zafar Naseem

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  3. Thank you so very much for sharing poignant and memorable moments of a get-together narrated by a lady.What she's stated is applicable to all get-together s and reunions of our Armed Forces fraternity.

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  4. Hello everyone, I still remember the 1sr course get together we had at INS Shivaji, Lonavla. Thereafter our course has continued tradition of yearly get together in India and abroad. My wife and I have been unfortunate to miss some of the events. We look forward to more of these events in future. God bless

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  5. These reunions are so important for post retirement wellbeing

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